I used to think I had to shrink myself to be accepted — until I realized being “too much” was actually just me being real. Recently, I triggered a group by simply showing up as myself, and it hit me hard. But I’m learning that discomfort doesn’t mean I did something wrong. It means I’m no longer available for performative spaces. I’m here to spark something deeper — and that’s powerful.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between a life that looks good on paper and the one your soul is craving, this is for you. I share how shifting from a 2X mindset to a 10X vision helped me let go of fear, rewrite my business strategy, and step into the version of myself I was always meant to be.

Loving an avoidant feels like chasing a high—you get glimpses of deep connection, only to be met with silence when you open your heart. I used to think if I just loved harder, it would work. But the truth is, healing began the moment I stopped pouring into someone who couldn’t hold me—and started choosing myself instead.

We spend so much time searching 'out there' for the life we want—love, purpose, clarity—when the real treasure has always lived within us. Reading The Alchemist reminded me that the journey itself is what prepares us to receive what’s already ours. Right now, my treasure is balance. Letting go of the noise, the people who drain me, and the need to over-prove. I’m learning to choose peace, say yes to life again, and protect my energy like it’s sacred—because it is."

Struggling to let go of someone you deeply connected with? Discover how releasing control, healing soul ties, and trusting the timing of your life can help you reclaim your power and peace.

I was taught that love had to be earned—through silence, obedience, and staying small. But I’m done shrinking. This is my story of breaking free from shame, reclaiming my truth, and choosing myself—fully and unapologetically.

Turning 33 changed everything. I ended a relationship that no longer served me, faced my fears around money, and chose to create my own version of security—on my own terms. This is the story of how I reclaimed my power, found my stability, and began living life for me.

If you’re paralyzed with fear, it might actually mean you’re on the right path. In this post, I open up about how resistance has shaped my biggest life changes—and why fear is often a sign that what you’re avoiding is exactly what you’re meant to do.

I used to shrink myself for love, hoping someone would finally choose me. But they weren’t ready — and now I know, that had nothing to do with my worth.

This 4/4 portal reminded me: I don’t need to be chosen. I choose me.

If someone couldn’t love you the way you needed, let that be your awakening — not your downfall.

You’re not too much.
You’re just not meant to beg for the bare minimum anymore. 🖤

This eclipse energy has been heavy—but it’s also been healing. I’ve been shedding old relationships, setting unapologetic boundaries, and finally choosing myself. If you’ve been feeling the pressure too, you’re not alone. This blog dives into my personal purge, what I’ve learned, and a powerful tarot spread to help you reflect and realign.

You’re not just looking for a new home—you’re creating a life that actually fits you. One that honors your freedom, your joy, and your truth. Let go of the “shoulds,” trust your vision, and start building a future that feels like home—from the inside out.

I thought I was surrendering, being intentional, and making grounded decisions—but if I’m being honest, I was struggling to let go. My tarot deck had become my security blanket, giving me every answer because I was too afraid to trust my own instincts. If you’ve ever felt stuck, waiting for signs instead of trusting yourself, this is for you. Let’s break the cycle of external validation and step into self-trust together.

Are you stuck reminiscing about the past instead of embracing the present? That realization hit me hard this week. I’ve always been a forward-thinker, but lately, doubt has made me question everything. A festival in my old town brought back memories—both empowering and painful. Instead of celebrating my wins, I found myself fixated on what I left behind. But here’s the truth: real growth isn’t about dwelling on the past, it’s about carrying its lessons forward. Moving ahead takes patience, self-trust, and the willingness to release what no longer serves you.

I kept chasing the next big thing—Mexico, a new relationship, a fresh start—only to realize I was losing myself in the process. Self-doubt took over. But instead of staying stuck, I turned to tarot, self-care, and deep reflection to rebuild my confidence—one step at a time. If you’ve ever felt lost, know this: You are not broken. Your confidence is still within you, waiting to rise again. 💛

I reflect on navigating personal upheaval after ending a relationship and facing homelessness. Seeking solace with family in Florida, I confront feelings of uncertainty and stagnation. Through daily tarot practices and journaling, I gain insights into my emotional state, acknowledging exhaustion and the need to release control. I emphasize the importance of self-awareness, embracing change, and reconnecting with passions to align with one's authentic self.

Feeling drained and stuck in overthinking? Sometimes, the fear of uncertainty holds us back more than our actual circumstances. I've been clinging to a false sense of security, trying to control everything—but what if letting go is the key to moving forward? Trusting the unknown is terrifying, but it’s also where the magic happens. Maybe the life we truly want is waiting for us on the other side of surrender.

Discover how to identify and release emotional blocks from past traumas with our comprehensive guide. Explore the impact of childhood trauma and abandonment on relationships and self-worth, and learn how to find emotional fulfillment beyond material possessions. This unique workbook integrates advanced Tarot insights for a deeper understanding and practical healing strategies, helping you align your actions with your vision and values. Start your journey to emotional freedom and personal growth today.

Struggling with mental fog after intense focus and creativity? Discover how my Clouded Mindset Workbook, combined with Tarot insights, can help you regain clarity, overcome depressive episodes, and stay on track with your goals. Learn how these strategies transformed my life, enabling me to list my house, secure a new job, and grow my business.

Struggling with anxiety and insomnia? Discover how journaling, medication, and building self-confidence can break the insomnia cycle. Learn from my personal journey through emotional manipulation and silent treatment to find effective strategies for better sleep and mental well-being.

Discover how to recognize gaslighting in relationships through my personal journey. Learn about the signs, the emotional impact, and effective healing strategies, including therapy, journaling, and setting boundaries. Explore the benefits of a red flags workbook to prevent repeating toxic relationship patterns and build self-confidence.