
Own My Outcome Blog
About the Blog
Welcome to our blog! It's a safe space where we explore life's journey together, navigating through its challenges and celebrating its triumphs. Here, I share not just my personal experiences but also insights that can resonate with you on your own path.
Life isn't always easy. Whether you're grappling with difficult family dynamics, facing the complexities of mental health, or grieving the loss of a loved one, know that you're not alone. Through my own struggles with ADHD, anxiety, and personal loss, I've learned valuable lessons that I'm eager to share with you.
But this blog isn't just about me—it's about you. It's about empowering you to find solace, strength, and purpose amidst life's uncertainties. Together, we'll explore the journey of self-acceptance, cultivate self-compassion, and embark on a quest for inner peace.
Ready for a Fresh Start? Let’s Talk About Creating a Life That Truly Fits You
You’re not just looking for a new home—you’re creating a life that actually fits you. One that honors your freedom, your joy, and your truth. Let go of the “shoulds,” trust your vision, and start building a future that feels like home—from the inside out.
Stop Searching for Signs: Trusting Yourself Over Tarot Scrolling
I thought I was surrendering, being intentional, and making grounded decisions—but if I’m being honest, I was struggling to let go. My tarot deck had become my security blanket, giving me every answer because I was too afraid to trust my own instincts. If you’ve ever felt stuck, waiting for signs instead of trusting yourself, this is for you. Let’s break the cycle of external validation and step into self-trust together.
Taking Control of Your Destiny
Are you stuck reminiscing about the past instead of embracing the present? That realization hit me hard this week. I’ve always been a forward-thinker, but lately, doubt has made me question everything. A festival in my old town brought back memories—both empowering and painful. Instead of celebrating my wins, I found myself fixated on what I left behind. But here’s the truth: real growth isn’t about dwelling on the past, it’s about carrying its lessons forward. Moving ahead takes patience, self-trust, and the willingness to release what no longer serves you.
Reclaiming Confidence After Life Moves Too Fast
I kept chasing the next big thing—Mexico, a new relationship, a fresh start—only to realize I was losing myself in the process. Self-doubt took over. But instead of staying stuck, I turned to tarot, self-care, and deep reflection to rebuild my confidence—one step at a time. If you’ve ever felt lost, know this: You are not broken. Your confidence is still within you, waiting to rise again. 💛
Finding Power in Change: My Journey
I reflect on navigating personal upheaval after ending a relationship and facing homelessness. Seeking solace with family in Florida, I confront feelings of uncertainty and stagnation. Through daily tarot practices and journaling, I gain insights into my emotional state, acknowledging exhaustion and the need to release control. I emphasize the importance of self-awareness, embracing change, and reconnecting with passions to align with one's authentic self.
Trust the Unknown & Embrace Change
Feeling drained and stuck in overthinking? Sometimes, the fear of uncertainty holds us back more than our actual circumstances. I've been clinging to a false sense of security, trying to control everything—but what if letting go is the key to moving forward? Trusting the unknown is terrifying, but it’s also where the magic happens. Maybe the life we truly want is waiting for us on the other side of surrender.
Emotional Blocks: Identifying and Releasing Past Traumas
Discover how to identify and release emotional blocks from past traumas with our comprehensive guide. Explore the impact of childhood trauma and abandonment on relationships and self-worth, and learn how to find emotional fulfillment beyond material possessions. This unique workbook integrates advanced Tarot insights for a deeper understanding and practical healing strategies, helping you align your actions with your vision and values. Start your journey to emotional freedom and personal growth today.
Clearing Mental Fog: Strategies for a Sharper Mind
Struggling with mental fog after intense focus and creativity? Discover how my Clouded Mindset Workbook, combined with Tarot insights, can help you regain clarity, overcome depressive episodes, and stay on track with your goals. Learn how these strategies transformed my life, enabling me to list my house, secure a new job, and grow my business.
Anxiety and Sleep: Breaking the Insomnia Cycle
Struggling with anxiety and insomnia? Discover how journaling, medication, and building self-confidence can break the insomnia cycle. Learn from my personal journey through emotional manipulation and silent treatment to find effective strategies for better sleep and mental well-being.
Recognizing Gaslighting in Relationships
Discover how to recognize gaslighting in relationships through my personal journey. Learn about the signs, the emotional impact, and effective healing strategies, including therapy, journaling, and setting boundaries. Explore the benefits of a red flags workbook to prevent repeating toxic relationship patterns and build self-confidence.
Tarot Cheat Sheet: Understanding Card Meanings
Discover the ultimate Tarot cheat sheet designed for both beginners and seasoned readers. This guide offers personalized interpretations, advanced insights, and practical advice, making it a unique and invaluable tool for enhancing your Tarot practice. Learn how to navigate card meanings, understand card combinations, and apply actionable guidance to your readings. Perfect for anyone looking to deepen their Tarot knowledge and gain confidence in their readings.
Shadow Work Journaling: Confronting Your Inner Critic
Discover how shadow work journaling can help you confront and transform your inner critic, especially regarding body image issues. Learn why incorporating Tarot into your anxiety management workbook offers unique insights and deeper self-understanding. Explore effective strategies for addressing negative self-talk, fostering self-compassion, and using Tarot as a tool for personal growth and healing.
Monthly Intentions: Creating a Vision for Long-Term Success
Discover the transformative power of monthly intention setting with our comprehensive guide. Learn why setting monthly intentions is crucial for aligning your actions with long-term goals, enhancing mindfulness, and fostering personal growth. Our custom template, designed for both beginners and seasoned practitioners, offers a structured approach to setting, tracking, and reviewing your intentions. Whether you use it with or without tarot cards, this practice will help you stay focused, improve well-being, and continuously grow. Start today and create a vision for long-term success.
Weekly Intention Setting: Aligning with Your Goals
Discover how to align your goals and achieve success with weekly intention setting using Tarot. Our structured Tarot spread guides you through setting clear, actionable intentions, overcoming challenges, leveraging your strengths, and receiving cosmic advice. Learn how to integrate this powerful practice into your routine for enhanced focus, motivation, and personal growth.
Setting Powerful Daily Intentions for Personal Growth
Learn how to set powerful daily intentions for personal growth using a structured template with Tarot insights. Discover the benefits of this mindful practice, including enhanced clarity, empowerment, and motivation. Perfect for beginners, this guide will help you achieve your goals and foster a deeper connection to your inner self.
Introduction to Tarot: The Major Arcana
Discover the profound insights of the Tarot's Major Arcana. Learn about each card's meaning, the Fool's Journey, and how these powerful symbols can guide your personal growth. Explore why creating a personalized Tarot cheat sheet can enhance your readings and provide deeper, intuitive insights.
Identifying and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs
Discover how to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that hold you back. Learn strategies for personal growth, self-reflection, and achieving your goals. Unlock your full potential today.
Breaking the Cycle of Negative Self-Talk
Understanding how my body reacts to stress has been a game changer for me. I’ve noticed that when I’m overwhelmed, I tend to
Negative self-talk can undermine your confidence and impact your mental well-being. Breaking this cycle is essential for personal growth and self-compassion. In this guide, you'll discover practical strategies to recognize, challenge, and reframe negative thoughts, as well as techniques to foster a more positive and supportive inner dialogue. Embrace these steps to transform your mindset and improve your overall quality of life.
Anxiety Management Techniques for Everyday Life
Understanding how my body reacts to stress has been a game changer for me. I’ve noticed that when I’m overwhelmed, I tend to lock my jaw and shrug my shoulders. Taking a moment to relax these areas has made a big difference. I also love deep breathing exercises—especially when I feel like I’m about to explode. Being a fire sign, I can get pretty fiery, so this practice helps me cool down. Adding to that, acai bowls have become my new obsession for their protein and fruit goodness. Plus, white noise on Spotify has transformed my sleep. Surrounding myself with supportive friends and fellow entrepreneurs has also been incredibly uplifting. And remember, it’s okay to use medication if you need it; it’s been a lifeline for me.
The Silent Treatment: A Major Red Flag
Explore my personal journey through the silent treatment and emotional manipulation, and discover how it impacted my well-being. My ex would go silent for days, claiming to be “processing” emotions, while I struggled with anxiety and depression. This led me to unhealthy coping mechanisms, including alcohol, believing that his return would fix everything. I've since learned that I’m in control of my own experience and deserve respect and validation. Discover how to recognize toxic behavior, set boundaries, and embrace self-empowerment in your own relationships.