Ready for a Fresh Start? Let’s Talk About Creating a Life That Truly Fits You
Introduction
If you’ve ever felt like you were doing everything you should do—checking off the boxes, following the rules—but still feeling disconnected from your own life, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re realizing it’s time for something different. Something that feels more like you.
I get it. I used to live by the "shoulds" too. I got married at 19 because that’s what people in my hometown did. I didn’t question it—I just followed the path laid out in front of me. But looking back, I wasn’t ready. I didn’t even know who I was yet.
Now, with my 33rd birthday around the corner, I’m finally seeing things with fresh eyes. After years of therapy, self-reflection, and healing, I’ve started to meet my authentic self. And let me tell you—there is nothing more powerful than realizing you have the right to change your story.
So if you’re in that space right now—maybe you’re thinking about a new home, a new lifestyle, or just craving a deeper alignment with who you really are—I want to invite you to slow down and get intentional. This is your moment.
Naturally, I pulled a few tarot cards (you know I had to!), and the messages were so aligned, I had to share them with you.
Practice Patience with Purpose
Ask yourself: Where in your life are you already showing patience? How can you bring that energy into your home search?
If you’re anything like me in the past, you may have rushed into decisions—bought things that didn’t fit just because they looked good on paper. But now? You’re wiser. You know this time isn’t about just buying a house. It’s about creating a lifestyle. A sanctuary. A space that supports your freedom, your healing, and your joy.
So take your time. Trust yourself. You’re not in a race—you’re in alignment.
Drop the "Shoulds"
What outdated expectations are you carrying that you’re finally ready to release?
Let go of the pressure to follow the traditional path. Maybe that path includes marriage, kids, and a white picket fence—but maybe your version of happiness looks completely different. And that’s more than okay—it’s powerful.
You’ve tried living for everyone else. Now’s your chance to build a life that’s rooted in what you want.
Clear the Chaos
Feeling overwhelmed by all the choices out there? You’re not alone. When we’re faced with big change, our minds can get loud and scattered. So let’s bring it back to basics:
What do you truly want? Not what social media tells you to want. Not what your parents or your past self expected.
What kind of home brings you peace, freedom, and inspiration? What kind of space will support the version of you that’s emerging right now?
And hey—ask for help. There are people living this lifestyle you’re dreaming of. Connect with them. Learn from them. You don’t have to figure it all out on your own.
Now, close your eyes for a moment and imagine this:
You wake up in your dream home—maybe it’s a cozy cottage near the beach, a peaceful RV parked under a sky full of stars, or a bright, airy loft in a community that gets you.
How does it feel?
Exciting? Grounding? Like you’re finally where you’re meant to be?
That’s your intuition talking. Trust it.
Here’s how you can start preparing today:
Get clear on what you really want—not what you think you need.
Reconnect with your heart’s desire. What lifestyle brings you joy, movement, freedom?
Reach out to people already living it. You’re not alone in this.
You’re not just finding a new home—you’re coming home to yourself.
And I’m so proud of you for taking this step. Let’s walk this path together. 💛
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