I used to think I had to shrink myself to be accepted — until I realized being “too much” was actually just me being real. Recently, I triggered a group by simply showing up as myself, and it hit me hard. But I’m learning that discomfort doesn’t mean I did something wrong. It means I’m no longer available for performative spaces. I’m here to spark something deeper — and that’s powerful.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between a life that looks good on paper and the one your soul is craving, this is for you. I share how shifting from a 2X mindset to a 10X vision helped me let go of fear, rewrite my business strategy, and step into the version of myself I was always meant to be.

Loving an avoidant feels like chasing a high—you get glimpses of deep connection, only to be met with silence when you open your heart. I used to think if I just loved harder, it would work. But the truth is, healing began the moment I stopped pouring into someone who couldn’t hold me—and started choosing myself instead.

We spend so much time searching 'out there' for the life we want—love, purpose, clarity—when the real treasure has always lived within us. Reading The Alchemist reminded me that the journey itself is what prepares us to receive what’s already ours. Right now, my treasure is balance. Letting go of the noise, the people who drain me, and the need to over-prove. I’m learning to choose peace, say yes to life again, and protect my energy like it’s sacred—because it is."

Struggling to let go of someone you deeply connected with? Discover how releasing control, healing soul ties, and trusting the timing of your life can help you reclaim your power and peace.

I was taught that love had to be earned—through silence, obedience, and staying small. But I’m done shrinking. This is my story of breaking free from shame, reclaiming my truth, and choosing myself—fully and unapologetically.

Turning 33 changed everything. I ended a relationship that no longer served me, faced my fears around money, and chose to create my own version of security—on my own terms. This is the story of how I reclaimed my power, found my stability, and began living life for me.

If you’re paralyzed with fear, it might actually mean you’re on the right path. In this post, I open up about how resistance has shaped my biggest life changes—and why fear is often a sign that what you’re avoiding is exactly what you’re meant to do.

I used to shrink myself for love, hoping someone would finally choose me. But they weren’t ready — and now I know, that had nothing to do with my worth.

This 4/4 portal reminded me: I don’t need to be chosen. I choose me.

If someone couldn’t love you the way you needed, let that be your awakening — not your downfall.

You’re not too much.
You’re just not meant to beg for the bare minimum anymore. 🖤

This eclipse energy has been heavy—but it’s also been healing. I’ve been shedding old relationships, setting unapologetic boundaries, and finally choosing myself. If you’ve been feeling the pressure too, you’re not alone. This blog dives into my personal purge, what I’ve learned, and a powerful tarot spread to help you reflect and realign.